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<p style="text-align: justify;">
	A Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was<br />
	around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He just said &ldquo;I am with you Darling&rdquo;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The husband&rsquo;s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point<br />
	in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.<br />
	That is what he gave her.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. &ldquo;A journey of a thousand miles<br />
	begins with a single step.&rdquo; Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<strong>MORAL OF THE STORY :</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<strong>Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The above story was sent to me by my friend Sanchita Roy. I do not hold any sort of copyright over the post.<strong><br />
	</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<a href="http://ishouvik.co.tv/?p=272" target="_blank"><strong>http://ishouvik.co.tv/?p=272</strong><br />
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<p style="text-align: justify;">
	A Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was<br />
	around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He just said &ldquo;I am with you Darling&rdquo;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The husband&rsquo;s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point<br />
	in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.<br />
	That is what he gave her.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. &ldquo;A journey of a thousand miles<br />
	begins with a single step.&rdquo; Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
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<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<strong>Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The above story was sent to me by my friend Sanchita Roy. I do not hold any sort of copyright over the post.<strong><br />
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	A Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was<br />
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<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	He just said &ldquo;I am with you Darling&rdquo;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The husband&rsquo;s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point<br />
	in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.<br />
	That is what he gave her.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. &ldquo;A journey of a thousand miles<br />
	begins with a single step.&rdquo; Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<strong>MORAL OF THE STORY :</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<strong>Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	The above story was sent to me by my friend Sanchita Roy. I do not hold any sort of copyright over the post.<strong><br />
	</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">
	<a href="http://ishouvik.co.tv/?p=272" target="_blank"><strong>http://ishouvik.co.tv/?p=272</strong><br />
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                                February 12, 2010                                by <a href="http://goofbucket.com/pg/blog/shouvik">Shouvik Mukherjee</a> &nbsp; 
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	<a href="http://ishouvik.co.tv" target="_blank"><img align="left" alt="Flower" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-273" height="166" src="http://ishouvik.co.tv/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Flower-300x224.jpg" title="Flower" width="222" /></a></p>
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	A Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was<br />
	around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.</p>
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	He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.</p>
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	The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.</p>
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	When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.</p>
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	He just said &ldquo;I am with you Darling&rdquo;</p>
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	The husband&rsquo;s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point<br />
	in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.</p>
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	No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.<br />
	That is what he gave her.</p>
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	If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. &ldquo;A journey of a thousand miles<br />
	begins with a single step.&rdquo; Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.</p>
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	<strong>MORAL OF THE STORY :</strong></p>
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	<strong>Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.</strong></p>
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	The above story was sent to me by my friend Sanchita Roy. I do not hold any sort of copyright over the post.<strong><br />
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